Middle schoolers are so challenging (and fascinating) because they straddle
two worlds. In one, they’re still children, so they need enormous amounts
of love, support and attention. In the other, they’re becoming teenagers—which
means they also seek independence and room to mature. That is why middle
schoolers are more in need of guidance and discipline than ever before.
This Parent Guide will help you map your course through these important
years to help your child be successful in school…and life. It will also
help you strengthen your relationship with him/her so that you start out
on a positive footing for the teen years ahead.
The most common middle school-related discipline issues are outlined along
with ideas for handling them. Topics and strategies covered include: arguing,
chores, homework headaches, moodiness, independence, natural and logical consequences,
staying connected but giving your middle schooler her needed space, TV/computer
rules, drugs/alcohol prevention ideas and serious behavior problems. In addition
to suggestions from the experts, the guide provides anecdotal accounts for
what works for parents of well-behaved kids. And if you ever reach your wit’s
end, it provides suggestions for working with teachers, counselors and administrators
at your child’s school and seeking professional help.